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In Loving Memory
KATHERINE J. (HELPLING) PROCTOR
6/4/1969
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1/2/2010
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Katherine J. (Helpling) Proctor, age 40, of Marion, died at 7:58 p.m. Saturday, January 2, 2010, in Marion General Hospital, Marion.
Katherine was born on June 4, 1969, in Elwood, Indiana, the daughter of Charles and Barbara (McCarter) Helpling.
Katherine graduated from Indiana Wesleyan College with a Bachelor of Science degree in nursing. She was a registered nurse for the Pendleton Correctional Facility. She enjoyed riding Harleys and being in the outdoors. She especially loved music and had a giving & helpful spirit.
Survivors include: father, Charles H. Helpling (Patricia) of Elwood, Indiana; mother, Barbara Helpling of Franklin, Indiana; former husband, Tim Proctor of Marion, Indiana: two sons, Steven Proctor and Jonathan Proctor, both of Marion, Indiana; one daughter, Kristen Proctor (Zach Aguilar) of Marion, Indiana; two brothers, Jeffrey A. Helpling (Jenny) of Elwood, Indiana & Scott N. Helpling of Marion, Indiana; nieces & nephews, Lisa, Brooke, Daysha, Garrett and Aaron Helpling, all of Elwood, Indiana, and Alex Helpling of New York, New York.
Memorial Services will be held at 7:00 p.m. Thursday, January 7, 2010, at Raven-Choate Funeral Home. Burial will be at a later date.
Friends may call from 4 -7 p.m., Thursday, January 7 at Raven-Choate Funeral Home, 1202 Kem Road, Marion, Indiana.
Memorial contributions can be made to Cancer Services of Grant County, 305 S. Norton Avenue, Tower Suites, Marion, Indiana 46952 .
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Online Condolences
From:
Lynn Haynes
LaFontaine
In
Relationship:
Friend
Kristin, Steven and Johnathon. I loved your mom so much. She was my best friend. Ill keep you in my prayers always and if you ever need anything or anyone I am here for you. God bless you all and may god watch over you in this time of sorrow.
Sent:
1/4/2010
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Cancer Services of Grant County
Marion
Indiana
Relationship:
Friend
The Staff of Cancer Services would like to offer our heartfelt condolences in the loss of Katherine.We would also like to thank you for thinking of us in your time of sorrow. May god bless and comfort you at this time.
Sent:
1/5/2010
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From:
Crystal McGuinn
Marion
IN
Relationship:
friend
My heart goes out to you all. Kathy was a great person and will be sadly missed. I wish you all the best for the future, i will keep you in my prayers.
Sent:
1/5/2010
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From:
Norman Lowe
Chattanooga
TN
Relationship:
Grandfather
Kristin, Steven and Johnathon- At times like these many turn from God and ask why did you do this to me. This is the time we should turn to God and say I don’t understand why but I will not question your wisdom. God will get you through this and make you wiser and stronger for it. You are in our prayers.
Grandpa (Norman)Lowe, Grandma (Sharon) Lowe, Great Grandpa (Arnold ) Lowe
Sent:
1/5/2010
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From:
Tracy Lowe
Chattanooga
Tennessee
Relationship:
Family
Kristen, Steven and Jonathan,
We are so sorry for your loss. Your Mom will truly be missed. We love you. You are in our prayers and in our thoughts.
Love,
Uncle Brian and Aunt Tracy
Sent:
1/6/2010
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From:
Karen Cardinal
North Vernon
Indiana
Relationship:
co-worker
Kathy was a wonderful person and a great nurse. I hope you remember all the good times with your mother, she loved her family.
Sent:
1/6/2010
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From:
Louie & Linda Whitted
Carmel
Indiana
Relationship:
Friend of Tim & Kathy
We are sorry for your loss. There are few words that may offer you comfort at this time. Kathy always had a smile and that it is how we will remember her.....smiling and laughing.
Sent:
1/6/2010
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From:
Diana Nall
Marion
In
Relationship:
High School Friend
I am very sorry for your loss, I knew your mother in high school and had talked off and on since. She was a great friend and she loved her family, she will be missed. I will continue to keep you in my prayers and my God be with you in your time of sorrow. Lean on him he will help you through all this time.
Diana Nall MHS Class of 1987
Sent:
1/7/2010
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From:
Stephanie J. (Dodson) Proffitt
Indianapolis
Indiana
Relationship:
Friend/Former Classmate
Kathy and I went to, and graduated from, Marion High School together. We shared many classes and were friends in school. I remember a bright, funny, down to earth, friendly girl who was always there with a helping hand or lending support. I am sure she will be missed greatly by her family and close friend, my sincerest condolences.
Sent:
1/7/2010
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From:
Amy (Nestleroad) Ingram
Gas City
IN
Relationship:
friend
I'm still in shock right now. I'm trying to understand why this happened. Kathy was such a caring person. I know she will be sadly missed. Hope you kids are doing OK, I'm praying for you all.
Sent:
1/11/2010
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From:
Lacey Gilbert
Marion
Indiana
Relationship:
Family friend
I'm so glad I had the chance to become close with Kathy over the past few years. Steven, Jonathan, and Kristen- I love you guys & you know I'm gonna be here for you through this! I think about Kathy every day and she is truly missed!! Keep your head up guys, she'd want you guys to stay strong!:)
Sent:
1/14/2010
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From:
Kristen Proctor
Marion
Indiana
Relationship:
Daughter
Do not stand at my grave and weep
I am not there.I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet white doves in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there,I did not die.
My spirit is still alive.
-Marey E. Frye.
Sent:
1/22/2010
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From:
Allison Florea
Marion
Relationship:
Friend of family
I am so sorry for your loss. I can't believe it. I remember hanging out at the house and dancing or just being crazy and she always laughed at us and told us we were funny or crazy... or even just being too loud! I cherish all of those times! My thoughts and prayers are continually with you guys. Stay Strong!
Sent:
3/3/2010
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